Mother wont follow my food rules for my 11m old son?

Haven't figured it out. Sorry. My mom has the same problem. Yes its a grandparents privilage to spoil a little. But dude, a little restrait is ok. I can not get my mom to even remember to slice up the friking hot dog (not really nutricious choice but ok) so its not a choking hazard. She thinks a booster seat in the car is the same as a infant car seat. I swear she would be ok with out a car seat. Well this doesn't help you in the slightest but at least you know you are not alone.